Choosing the Best Books on Relationships – Are Some Just Nonsense?

If you have just been through a breakup, you might be looking for books on relationships. But there are so many out there that you are confused about what may be the best books on relationships. After all you want to spend your money on what will work.

The first thing to look for when trying to find the best books on relationships is to find one that was written by someone who has been in your shoes. You want to find an author who has helped himself or others heal a relationship and been successful. The author must care a lot about the people he helps. Some authors are self proclaimed experts who really have never actually helped anyone. They have no experience in real life situations. They may have spent countless hours studying the subject, but never have gotten out and come face to face with a situation.

Next, you want to find a book that has real advice in it. Does it get specific and give you answers to questions such as, What do men or women really need? Does it explain how to satisfy that need? If you or your partner has had an affair, does it tell you what to do to heal the relationship? How about getting relief from the pain of breaking up? Are there tips on how to get that relief?

Or does it just say to stay separate for about a month and focus on yourself? The best books on relationships go into detail instead of just writing a meaningless book with lots of filler. Find one that has new information in it, not some common advice you can get from just about anybody. Be careful when selecting a book about how to save your relationship, because the market knows you’re desperate and that you want immediate relief.

The last thing to look for is to find a book that has lots of testimonials from people all over the world. Sometimes when you read through the recommendations, you will see testimonials that seem to come from a certain area and one area only. Looks like they may have come from someone the author knows? Seeing a wide variety of recommendations is a good sign that the book is well read and has helped lots of people.